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Kristy Acevedo's avatar

This reads like a love letter to tennis. 40s is definitely a time to revisit to our teen years—the joys and the pains—and finally getting to integrate everything we’ve learned and loved.

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Mary Hutto Fruchter's avatar

🥰

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xena upside's avatar

Sweetie

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Tess Baldwin's avatar

"Together, we move from where we were to where we are to where we want to be, each step steeped in kindness."

This is actual magic. The way these words tumble together, so simple in terms of concept, but so hard in practice is so lovely. I have some current experiences, trying something I thought I did well before, but it turns out that I am still a beginner after all. Love, love, love.

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Sherri's avatar

I’m feeling the same way as I begin yoga again! And I need to talk more to my teenage self. 🥰

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Mary Hutto Fruchter's avatar

Thanks Tess! I love this comment. 🥰

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Annie Allen's avatar

I love your connections between tennis and self-love!

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Mary Hutto Fruchter's avatar

Thank you!

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Tess Baldwin's avatar

Being kind to yourself can have such a powerful impact on so many things. I love that your older self was able to bring that lovingkindness to bear as you returned to tennis.

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Dad Mode's avatar

I’ve taken up tennis again in my early 30s. It’s amazing how much sensibility and patience an adult brain can give to trusting a process. Although I played competitively as a teenager, I think I’m currently playing at a far higher level.

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Mary Hutto Fruchter's avatar

Agreed, and that’s awesome!

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Andrea Bass's avatar

I love the way you write about your hobbies! You almost (ALMOST) make me want to play tennis. 😀 Your message of self-kindness is always important for me to remember. Good luck hitting the ball and whatnot! 🎾

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Mary Hutto Fruchter's avatar

Thanks for seeing me. 🥰

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